Men are not very fashionable beings compared to Women, some guys are actually not doing bad, while some need deliverance in this department, irrespective of how he is doing, as a lady, you can help him Improve
Suggest styles for him to sew.
Suggest color combinations for him
Be his Fashion Designer and Fashion Police
Correct him when he makes fashion blunders, like color blocking or wearing mismatching outfits and commend him the day he dresses well.
If he is the type that doesn’t buy clothes and accessories, make him do so.
You have POWER and INFLUENCE over your man, use it well, you can buy for him too, for instance, if he doesn’t wear sneakers, jeans or fine t-shirts, you could collect money from him for that purpose and buy some for him and make him wear them and look sweet.
Within few months of coming into his life, people should notice the change/improvement in his wardrobe…
As I told a lady few weeks back, your job as a helper is also SPIRITUAL, even if you didn’t marry a Pastor, that Man you married, strive to contribute to his life Spiritually.
If he is too busy, look into his schedule and:
Fix Fasting/Bible Study for the both of you,
Send him Bible verses and voice notes to read and listen to during the day.
You are not the holy spirit, but Iron sharpeneth Iron. Don’t enter a Man’s life and quench his Spiritual Life.
Some Men don’t know how to call their parents and check on them, or send Happy new month text messages, gifts and build relationships.
You are to become his Public Relations Officer.
Ask him if he has called his Mom this week etc
Correct him if he makes or takes anti-social actions.
Help him build good social relations with his colleagues, boss in the office, Pastor, neighbors, family members etc.
This is also key,
His progress is your progress.
Encourage him to pursue courses, second, third degrees.